When I started my career journey, I am grateful that I got to learn not only these 5 words but how to understand and put these words into action – Energy, Energise, Integrity, Kaizen, Collaboration. I had the opportunity to work with some amazing leaders and also in a culture that had open door policy and skip level meetings with our central HR. We were also imbibed about ‘how to’ lead with example and that too consistently while also ‘how to’ always be in pursuit to not only bring out the best in yourself but also the immediate team that one works with.
As I practice at present, my PCC from ICF, I recognise certain aspects of self-awareness levels that was untapped within me and it forms a crucial part of who I am today more evolved as a human and a leader. . But let me also state that words such as leadership, strategy, culture are not just words, they are a mindset, a feeling, a belief to be practiced. Only then you give it wings to shape up.
Allow me to share 3 points that was transformational in my self-awareness journey and how it is consistently creating that ripple effect in strengthening a positive workplace culture.
- The Difference
I observe that the words Coach, Mentor, Counseller, Consultant are used interchangeably at times whereas all are completely different interventions from each other, depending on discovering your need at that point. Ofcourse a Coach also has the expertise to wear the mentor hat, however, what’s more important is what is your immediate goal that you want to solve.
Mentoring is ideally a senior colleague, seen as more knowledgeable, extends advice while being a role model. Here the model is like a Parent and Child. Counselling is working with a client who seek guidance or advice around a dissatisfaction in life and supports by working on issues like distress/ anxiety. The model works like a Doctor and patient. Training is the process of getting knowledge skills or abilities by studying, teaching. The trainer is the subject matter expert on a particular topic and will demonstrate how its is done and will support you with all the things to need to bake the cake and will also show you how to bake. Model is like a teacher and student. On the other hand, your Coach works on the model of partnership where the Coach helps you evoke and raise your self-awareness via reflective questioning work and works on trust. A coach does not advise, and this is also one of the reasons why practicing becoming a Coach is not an easy task. Hence for effective leadership, I highly recommended getting a coach as its helps key values percolate, leading to better culture in work environments.
- Regulating your emotions
For a moment, if we do not talk about leadership, a key daily challenge I observe is the need to regulate our emotions. This is something that comes over time with conscious practice and a coach can help evoke your self-awareness from various untapped areas within you. While reading the masterpiece by Daniel Goleman on Emotional Intelligence and during my practice as well, I recognised multiple ways that I could regulate and channelise my emotions better. In senior leadership positions, there are pressures and to maintain a calm helps in taking better decisions. Being a effective listener to ask reflective questions stems from EI which has a direct correlation to building a positive workplace culture. Few simple practices that has worked for me is finding my space with myself , taking care of the plants at my home, reflecting on happy memories and documenting my thoughts.
- Knowing your purpose
My learning is that imbibing and cultivating values flows best as a top-down approach at workplaces where having a in-depth understanding of culture and the way you would want it to shape up while mapping it to “is your vision and goal driving your people in the way you would want it?”. When we have clarity in our core business purpose and what pain point are we solving for our customers, stakeholders and employees, then the ripple effect starts to take place because this also stems from a leader’s self-awareness.
To conclude this piece, I’d say, take a moment to reflect on your self-awareness and also tap into the getting a professional certified coach that could open up a new spectrum of visibility inside you. From my study, I found the study into “Who Am I” deeply interesting.
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