Why Honesty Comes with Checks and Balances

Honesty is often hailed as a cardinal virtue, a cornerstone of personal integrity, and a foundational pillar in building trust within organisations. However, being entirely truthful is more complex than it seems. Honesty comes with inherent checks and balances, shaped by psychological and neuroscientific factors. In my article, I make an attempt to talk about some aspects of why people might withhold full honesty and explores the roles of belief systems and childhood experiences in shaping honest behaviours.

  1. Cognitive Dissonance and Self-Perception

One of the primary reasons people struggle with complete honesty is cognitive dissonance—a psychological discomfort experienced when one’s actions conflict with their beliefs or values. When individuals perceive that honesty may lead to negative consequences, such as social rejection or personal loss, they might choose to withhold the truth to maintain a positive self-image. This is particularly relevant for senior executives, who often fsace complex situations requiring a balance between transparency and strategic discretion.

Research Insight: Studies in psychology suggest that individuals are motivated to reduce cognitive dissonance by rationalising their behaviour or adjusting their beliefs. This process can lead to selective honesty, where individuals are truthful in some contexts but not in others, depending on the anticipated impact on their self-perception and social standing.

  1. Neuroscientific Factors: The Brain’s Response to Honesty

Neuroscience reveals that the brain’s response to honesty involves complex neural processes. The prefrontal cortex, associated with decision-making and ethical reasoning, plays a pivotal role in evaluating the consequences of honesty. Additionally, the amygdala, responsible for emotional processing, reacts to the potential stress of revealing uncomfortable truths.

Research Insight: What I have learnt that functional MRI studies show that being honest activates the brain’s reward system, particularly when honesty aligns with an individual’s values. However, the anticipation of negative repercussions can trigger the brain’s threat response, leading to stress or anxiety. This dual response explains why individuals might weigh the benefits and risks of honesty, often resulting in a cautious approach to full disclosure.

  1. The Influence of Belief Systems and Moral Reasoning

Belief systems and moral reasoning significantly impact one’s propensity for honesty. These systems are shaped by cultural, religious, and personal values, which can either encourage or inhibit honest behaviour. For instance, a belief in the importance of social harmony may lead individuals to withhold potentially disruptive truths, while a strong commitment to ethical principles might promote transparency.

Research Insight: Developmental psychology suggests that moral reasoning evolves over time, influenced by societal norms and personal experiences. For senior executives, whose decisions can affect large groups, understanding the moral frameworks guiding their actions is critical. This awareness can help in navigating the ethical dilemmas associated with honesty, particularly in situations involving stakeholder interests.

  1. Childhood Experiences and the Development of Honest Behaviours

Childhood experiences play a foundational role in shaping attitudes toward honesty. Early interactions with caregivers, including the consequences faced for truthful or deceitful behaviour, contribute to the development of an individual’s honesty-related values. Consistent reinforcement of the value of honesty in childhood can lead to a strong internal commitment to truthfulness in adulthood.

Research Insight: Longitudinal studies in developmental psychology indicate that individuals who were raised in environments that valued open communication and provided constructive feedback for honesty are more likely to exhibit honest behaviours later in life. Conversely, those exposed to punitive consequences for honesty may develop a tendency to conceal the truth to avoid conflict or punishment.

  1. The Role of Organisational Culture and Leadership

For senior executives, the organisational culture they foster significantly influences honesty within their teams. A culture that rewards transparency and ethical behaviour encourages individuals to be truthful, even in challenging situations. Conversely, a culture that penalises mistakes or discourages open communication can create an environment where selective honesty or even deception becomes a survival strategy.

Research Insight: Organisational behaviour studies highlight the importance of leadership in setting the tone for honesty. Leaders who model transparent and ethical behaviour can instil these values within their teams, promoting a culture of honesty and integrity. This is crucial for building trust and fostering an environment where employees feel safe to speak the truth.

As an ending note, I’d say that this is an interesting topic for discussion and just about 800 words may not do justice, however, I am grateful for you to have taken out time to read. Happy to hear fany perspectives.

#Honesty, while universally valued, is governed by intricate checks and balances rooted in psychological and neuroscientific factors. Cognitive dissonance, neural responses, belief systems, childhood experiences, and organisational culture all play roles in shaping honest behaviours.


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Dr. Ankoor Dasguupta
Dr. Ankoor Dasguupta, President’s Select Member of Leaders Excellence [MLE] at Harvard Square, is a prominent figure in the industry, serves as a mentor, advisor, and speaker at the Indian Institute of Film Training & Digital Marketing (IFTDM). Holding a significant role on the Advisory Board of the Marketing Department at ISBR Business School, Ankoor is also on the Advisory Board of Global Mathematics & Mathematics Olympiad Graded Assessment Test with Competition. Ankoor is also an empanelled Speaker at SpeakIn which also runs the Indian Speaker Bureau.

Extending beyond academia; Ankoor has been honoured with the "CIRCLE OF EXCELLENCE 2024" award by Passion Vista and recognized as the "MAN OF EXCELLENCE, 2024" by the prestigious Indian Achievers' Award. Additionally, he received the "LEADER 2.0 AWARD, 2023" from adgully and was named a "DIGITAL KAIZEN LEADER by DigiAdCon 2024”, Dr. Dasguupta's contributions to the field of marketing are widely acclaimed, marking him as an inspiring thought leader in his domain. Ankoor is also a member of IMA India’s CMO Forum.

Most recently Dr. Dasguupta has been selected and felicitated with the national level award -Dr. A.P.J Abdul Kalam Inspiration Award 2024 in the category Youth Icon of the Year.

Dr. Dasguupta is a key member of the esteemed International CMO Council and keeps delivering lectures at top Business Schools and also colleges at University of Delhi. As an industry expert, Ankoor has also been a member of the interview panel at MICA for their PGP Group Exercise & Personal Interview PI process for PGDM-C/PGDM selection for two consecutive years. Dr. Dasguupta is also on the Advisory Board of the Marketing Department at ISBR Business School, Bangalore. Recognized by DMA Asia as a marketing Ace, Dr. Dasguupta is a LinkedIn Top Voice, advocate of social impact, driven by kaizen, Ankoor believes in the power of Energy and Energize

Dr. Ankoor is practicing his PCC (Level 2) coaching from the gold standard International Coaching Federation [ICF]. He is a people's person and has worked across functions in senior leadership positions in marketing, advertising, media & communication with a pedigree of 24 years and ongoing exciting journey. Trained from Dale Carnegie in Mentoring to Develop Talent, Ankoor is a marketing practitioner, a coach, a knowledge manager, a team builder, a thought-leader, an avid writer with close to 100 published articles / interviews and is a Thought Leader. Dr.Ankoor wears the hat of a CMO as well. His leisure pursuits are reading, effective listening and percussion. Follow Dr. Ankoor Dasguupta on LinkedIn| https://www.linkedin.com/in/ankoordasguupta/

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